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| Hum bhaage nahi, hum legally chale the |
Ajkal ke naujawan pyar mein aise doob jaate hain jaise chai me biscuit. Jab ghar walay razi na hon, to seedha plan hota hai:
“Chalo court mein nikah kar lete hain!”
Magar sawaal ye hai: Kya ghar se bhaag kar shadi karna qanooni taur par sahi hai? Aur kya ye waqai aqalmandi ka kaam hai?
Chaliye, Sharafat Bhai ki guidance ke sath is qanooni aur jazbati chakkar ko samajhte hain!
⚖️ Qanooni Taur Par Court Marriage Kya Hai?
Court marriage ka matlab hota hai:
- Dono afraad baalik hon (18 saal se zyada, ladki kuch provinces mein 16+ bhi chalti hai).
- Apni marzi se nikah karna chahein.
- Qanooni nikah registrar ke samne nikah ho, witnesses ke sath.
Pakistan mein Muslim Family Laws Ordinance 1961 aur Child Marriage Restraint Act ke tahat ye sab legal hai.
👮♀️ Lekin Ghar Se Bhaagna?
Ghar se bhaag kar shadi karna technically illegal nahi agar:
- Dono baligh hon.
- Consent (razi mandi) ho.
- Koi kidnapping ya fraud involved na ho.
BUT ghar walay aksar FIR lodge kar detay hain, jisme likha hota hai:
- “Meri beti ko bhaga kar le gaya hai.”
- “Zabardasti shadi karwa li.”
Police ladki ko uthakar court le ja sakti hai taake uski statement li jaaye. Agar ladki keh de:
“Main apni marzi se gayi hoon.”
To case close ho jaata hai—lekin is poori procedure mein tang kiya ja sakta hai.
😳 Social Pressure Aur Emotional Nuksan
Sharafat Bhai ke mutabiq:
“Court marriage ke baad ghar ki daal roti band ho jaye to samajh lo love marriage mein mirch masala zyada ho gaya.” 😂
Log kya kahenge, ghar wale kab maaf karenge, aur rishtey daaron ke taaney—ye sab emotional issues uthte hain.
✅ Safe Court Marriage Karne Ka Tareeqa
Agar waqai situation aisi ho gayi hai ke ghar wale kabhi bhi razi nahi honge, to ye legal aur safe process follow karo:
1. Nikah Registrar Choose Karo
- Registered aur professional ho.
- Dono parties ka CNIC zaroori hai.
- 2 witnesses hon (aam tor pe registrar provide kar deta hai).
2. Nikah Nama Fill Karo
Urdu + English version lena chahiye. CNIC ki copy, passport-size photos chahiye hoti hain.
3. Affidavit File Karo
Girl ka affidavit hota hai jisme wo likhti hai:
“Main apni marzi se nikah kar rahi hoon.”
4. Court Protection Petition
Jab ghar wale aggressive ho sakte hain to High Court mein Protection Petition file karo.
Ye petition dono husband-wife ki taraf se hoti hai.
Police ko order milta hai ke inko tang na kiya jaye.
👩⚖️ Court Ke Faislay Kya Kehte Hain?
Pakistan ke kai High Courts ne clear kiya hai:
- Agar ladki baalik ho aur apni marzi se shadi kare to usse koi zabardasti wapas nahi le jaa sakta.
- “Love marriage” legal hai, lekin “bhaga kar zabardasti” illegal hai.
Ladki agar court mein affidavit de de to FIR false prove ho sakti hai.
🤕 Court Marriage Ke Side Effects (Sharafat Bhai Version)
- Saas ke taaney free mein milte hain! – "Bina bataye layi hai hamare ghar?"
- Ghar walon ka boycott package! – "Hamari izzat mitti mein mila di!"
- Facebook pe cousin ki post: – “Bewafa logon ka asliyat sabke samne aa gaya!”
- Waqeel ki fees alag se! – "Court mein jaake mohabbat mehngi padti hai bhai!"
🔐 Legal Tips Sharafat Bhai Se
- CNIC updated rakho – ladki ka bhi.
- Nikah registrar ki copy aur receipts sambhal ke rakho.
- Fake documents ya witnesses mat do – ye criminal offense hai.
- Social media pe shadi ke din reels mat banao – FIR pending ho sakti hai! 😜
💞 Mohabbat Aur Qanoon—Dono Samajh Kar Chalo!
Court marriage kisi ka bhi qanooni haq hai. Magar agar usse:
- Ghar ka sukoon,
- Emotional stress,
- Ya kisi ki izzat khatre mein aaye,
To soch samajh ke faisla lena chahiye. Mohabbat qabil-e-izzat hoti hai—agar usse tameez aur qanoon ke dairay mein kiya jaye.
🤝 Akhri Baat: Sharafat Bhai Ki Nasihat
“Love karo, lekin legal tareeqay se. Ghar walay man jayein to chuttiyon mein biryani milti hai, warna court mein samosay bhi khud ke paisay se laane padte hain!” 😂
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